Anonymous asked: As a male dominant, I'd say that if a female was submissive as a result of low self esteem, then she's submissive for the wrong reasons. It should be the other way around, but am I debating the chicken and the egg here?
Id probably agree, although part of the problem there is that when you have low self esteem its easy to be used and not really recognize that its happening. Even if you do its easy not to care because anything that gives you ‘worth’ is good, even if your only worth is your worthlessness. If that makes sense.
But its like that with sex in general. Ive known people who fuck anything with a pulse because at least theyre wanted for sex. But part of the reason for their issues is the very fact theyre fucking a million people.
Very chicken/egg-ish.
